Tulsa Divorce Lawyer Robert G. “Hap” Fry Jr.

Robert G “Hap” Fry Jr., Tulsa Divorce Lawyer

Robert G “Hap” Fry Jr. has been deemed a reputable Tulsa divorce lawyer for over 40 years. He represents his clients in cases involving high-conflict, high-resolution divorce and child custody litigation. After graduating from the University of Tulsa College of Law with a J.D. in 1967, Fry went on to serve as the Chief Public Defender of Tulsa County for two years. In 1968, he was admitted to the Oklahoma and U.S. District Court, Northern District of Oklahoma, followed by being admitted to the U.S. Court of Appeals, 10th Circuit in 1972.

He has been a CLE speak on numerous topics, including how to cross-examine a psychological expert, divorce fundamentals, and examining a custody evaluation report. Fry’s trial philosophy can best be described as simple and to the point: “Shoot all the bullets you have and then throw the empty gun at them.” His work in Family Law has resulted in many honors and awards.


  • Fellow of the AAML and past President of the Oklahoma Chapter


  • Listed as an Oklahoma Super Lawyer every year since 2007
  • Listed in Best Lawyers
  • Selected as Lawyer of the Year for Family Law in Tulsa for 2016 by Best Lawyers
  • Law firm of Fry & Elder made the S. News & World Report’s exclusive list of Best Law Firms from 2014 to 2016
  • Selected as an Outstanding Young Lawyer of Tulsa County in 1971
  • Featured as an outstanding lawyer in the Oklahoma Super Lawyers Magazine every year since 2007
  • Carries an AVPreeminent Rating by Martindale-Hubble, the highest recognition possible in the legal industry for professionalism and ethics

Practice areas:

  • Family Law
  • Divorce
  • Child custody
  • Visitation
  • Property division
  • Support alimony
  • Modification of decrees
  • Enforcement of decrees

Contact Info:

Fry & Elder
1630 S. Main Street, Tulsa, OK 74119-1806 (Map/Directions)
Phone: (918) 633-0900
Fax: (918) 592-2410
Website: www.fryelder.com